Happy 2012! I am one of those people who for the entire month of January will say, “Happy New Year!” But because to some it seems strange, I thought a minor change would appease everyone. As time would have it, it’s already mid-February:)

As one who loves self-reflection I have concluded that in order to Live Royally I must embrace my God-given gifts. Having several, one can become confused as to the one that should be used and can be used to bring about the greatest impact in the lives of others. Going through the process I can now say that Teaching is my most valuable gift!

I have always loved listening to others, hearing their thoughts and perspectives and being able to, in turn, share my expertise on any given subject. My favorite subject is all things related to God and Jesus Christ. I love to talk politics as well and to mix it up a little. I like discourse about pop culture and it’s destructive forces, etc.

Having so many topic from which to choose made it a necessity to choose when I began my writing career in 2004. I chose to become a Non-Fiction Christian writer. I love reality and getting to a point of Royal Living required that I write about truth. I do have a healthy appreciation for fiction as well though it’s not what I do.

I have been blessed as an author of two books. I have self-published both which have at their peak provided sustainable living, a rarity for writers. I have been able to forge a speaking and teaching career and I have and am developing products all from the books. Yes, I’m feeling pretty good about the possibilities. I now want to share, with others, how I gained this success and the incredible possibilities.

I want others to enjoy and look forward to the possibilities in their writing as I have. Therefore, I am so excited to share my new on-site and online classes for writers! Not only will students complete their writing project or re-energize their current project, but they will learn how to pre-market their work so that upon completion the project is fully paid for and they will be able to earn immediately. This is so exciting and I know that many will be blessed. Who’s ready to be blessed? Who’s ready to liquidate the book inventory thathas been stored up for months with no possibility of selling? If that’s you or you know someone who fits this description, please stay tuned for class schedule and registration information. Classes begin February 27, 2012. So excited!

Living Royally,

Deb

Ok, yes I watch the Celebrity Apprentice but that is coming to an end. In the past, I watched it because I like Ivanka Trump’s show of strength (and her shoe line is fierce). But quite frankly, Donald J. Trump Sr. is less than admirable and proves over and over again that money doesn’t qualify anyone for humanitarian awards. On last Sunday’s episode, of the Celebrity Apprentice, Donald J. Trump Sr. commented about Star Jones’ rear end actually using the crude word A__ to refer it. After, Nene Leakes insinuated that Marlee Matlin and Hope Dworaczyk kiss up to Star Jones, Trump said something to this effect, It’s a much nicer a__ since she loss the weight. Star Jones caught the insult instantly and her response was to grin and bear it. How outrageous that she didn’t have enough dignity to demand an apology and leave the insidious show. For one who presents as having it all together and living the grand life Jones played right into the persona of pretentiousness that is so often listed as a characteristic of the rich and famous. I’m disgusted over this incident and the great disrespect shown to her, even if she isn’t. But what I’m most appalled at is Star Jones believing that this “game” is so important that she is willing to lose her dignity. Celebrity Apprentice FAIL! Donald J. Trump, Sr. FAIL! Star Jones FAIL!

Happy New Year!! Yes, even after 11 days the year is still new. I had every intention of writing sooner but as things would have it—I’ve been sick.
While under the weather I had plenty of time to reflect on my attitude towards life, towards others and even towards myself. There were a few very interesting revelations and I’d like to share them here so that I can continue to grow as a Queen and perhaps you will find my experiences useful.

My attitude towards life: After spending the last 3 months in serious illness, I emerged with great hope and an intact faith! To be sure, there were brief periods of worry, yes “worry”. I pause here for emphasis because I’ve found that so often Christians will use any word other than “worry” to describe their state of mind because somehow it appears that their faith is much stronger than the next. The reality is, however, that we all worry at some point in our lives. The key is to not stay there! Call it what it is, enter into deep prayer and meditation on the Word of God and go on! Denial has never added to any distressing situation. Honesty is a key component in the healing process. I’m pleased to share that I’m on the mend and approaching life daily with some of the energy as before to achieve all things God has purposed for my life.

Attitude towards others: I’ve always thought of myself as compassionate. During these last three months, of personal challenge, I have become that much more compassionate. Ironically it is not because of a sudden epiphany about others challenges but because of the lack of compassionate I received from others. I’ve come to realize that when one is experiencing any form of challenge there will be those to support you through them, there will be those to make it difficult to navigate through them and there will be others who simply could care less. I have been challenged by those who would fall into the last category to be different! My challenge is to be for others who they are unable to be for me–that way we both win!

Attitude towards self: Needless to say, as a result of my health challenges I have not been able to generate as much revenue, I have taken a self-imposed break from promotion and marketing, I have gained about 7 pounds and I have ignored a few basic needs I have. I have compartmentalized each of these so that I can get back to Living Royally every day, despite physical challenges.
Revenue will return as there is niche and the products are great-no worries.
Promotion and Marketing has moved offline to the numerous wonderful Queens and Princesses who have lined up for our Lemons to Lemonade Coaching Series (TM).
Weight Gain: My illness led to physical activity which led to weight gain. I’ve had to modify my diet, increase my activity as much as I can and get plenty of rest. So far so good.
I’m encouraged in 2011! There will be great new relationships formed, more meaningful business and much greater love for self.

I am Living Royally!

Deb